by Jenny Bilksie-Smith | Dec 5, 2025
Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns (Even When You Swear You’re Done With Them) If you’ve ever wondered why you keep repeating relationship patterns or emotional patterns—even after all the therapy, insight, and healing you’ve already done—you’re not...
by Jenny Bilksie-Smith | Dec 1, 2025
A Dry Season by Melissa Febos: A Therapist’s Reflection Discover five powerful lessons—about pleasure, people-pleasing, and becoming visible to yourself—that can completely shift the way you understand erotic energy and intimacy. In A Dry Season, Melissa Febos...
by Jenny Bilksie-Smith | Dec 1, 2025
What Your Dreams Mean: How Nighttime Messages Guide Daylight Healing Dreams have become one of the most reliable tools I use to stop abandoning myself. For years, I didn’t realize I was doing it. Self-abandonment was so deeply woven into my nervous system—so tied to...